Gehgeh, one of Nigeriaβs most unapologetic social influencers, has shaken the table once again. With over 25,000 listeners in his recent virtual class, he dropped bombs that left many men nodding in agreement and women boiling in anger.
According to Gehgeh, modern relationships are no longer built on loveβthey are built on survival. In his words, many ladies today donβt love men; they love what men can do for them. He argues that relationships have become a trap where broke or lazy women use the concept of βloveβ to enslave men into carrying responsibilities that donβt even belong to them.
And trust Gehgeh, he didnβt sugarcoat it. Hereβs a breakdown of his Brutal Relationship Lessons:
Gehgehβs Brutal Relationship Lessons π¨
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Most Women Have No Spec, Just Have Money.
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Boyfriend is a mumu title they give you so you can carry responsibilities that are not yours. Someone else will still βknackβ her.
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Your girlfriend has traveled to places you may never touchβbut she canβt post it online because youβll question her.
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Just because a child looks like you doesnβt mean itβs yours. Gehgeh says: βDo DNA.β
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If your girlfriend had a better option, she wouldnβt be with you. Facts only.
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A financially stable woman will boldly tell you: youβre not her class.
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Save your money. Buy clothes. Eat well. Look good. Appearance matters.
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You can do 80% in a relationship, another man will do 20%βand still βknackβ your babe.
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Work hard. Nobody is coming to save you. Gehgeh insists: Hustle is personal.
Why Men Are Cheering
For years, Nigerian men have been made to look like the villains in every relationship story. But Gehgeh is now voicing what many men whisper privately: relationships are no longer about love, theyβre about leverage. And in todayβs Nigeria, leverage is money, status, and access.
His words cut deep because they expose uncomfortable truths men experience daily but rarely speak about. Men know the pressure of being βthe providerβ while competing with side distractions, secret admirers, and social media validation.
Why Women Are Angry
On the other hand, women argue that Gehgeh is generalizing, painting all women with the same brush. To them, heβs fueling mistrust and pushing men further away from commitment. But the question still hangs: if his points are all lies, why do they trigger so much truth in the hearts of men listening?
Final Word: Men, Wake Up!
Whether you agree or not, one thing is clear: Gehgeh is forcing men to wake up. Heβs telling men to stop being βmumu boyfriends,β to stop wasting their resources on women who wouldnβt give them a second look if their financial situation changed.
At the end of the day, his message is simple: love with wisdom, but never let yourself be used.
π₯ Now the question isβdo you agree with Gehgeh or do you think heβs just bitter? Men, are you ready to start protecting yourselves? Women, are you bold enough to defend your side?
Drop your thoughts π. Letβs argue this out.
